Buy sandwiches every week. In my defence, they're damn good ones!

how rich is "rich person" - because my relative scale is so bad that being in a car with heated seats feels very "rich person" even though it's more like upper-middle class (if I'm not mistaken)

if "rich person" is more like top 1%, I'm not sure there's anything I've done that's "rich person":

• never been on a yacht (let alone owned one),
• never influenced an election or supported an illegal coup in another country to support my business interests,
• never owned a sex slave
• never used my extensive surveillance apparatus to stalk someone
• never coordinated a massacre of workers and their families for trying to improve their working conditions
• and, perhaps the most "rich person" thing in this particular moment, I've never been to Epstein's island.

wow!

... i sleep on expensive Italian/belgian linen sheets...

Oppression of the proletariat.

bad girl, no 🚿

I've lived on Queen Mary 2 for almost a year.

Granted, I was working aboard at the time, but still...

I don't splurge much on clothes, technology, vehicles, food, etc...but every month I do get a professional massage (get your head out of the gutter ...totally non-sexual). Helps with all the muscle tension that builds up from daily stress from everything (work, life, anything). If you've never had one, I highly suggest trying it out at least once.

meanwhile 90% of Chinese people own their homes, and of those 80% own their home outright (no mortgage or other liens)

https://www.forbes.com/sites/wadeshepard/2016/03/30/how-people-in-china-afford-their-outrageously-expensive-homes/

not sure we should consider home ownership "rich person" stuff, tbh - though it breaks my heart that this is what it has come to

Go to Michelin starred restaurants. I'm too poor to justify going to these places but my mom likes to take me out for my birthday, and I really love food so I will inevitably agree after a very feeble protest.

I've tasted tea in a teahouse that would be over $1000 a pound.

I bought a piece of outdoor furniture yesterday. The nice kind of outdoor furniture which won't immediately rot in the Pacific Northwest.

...but just one piece.

this, too, is my weakness - good food is good food; I don't need nice presentation, wait staff, etc. - I just crave excellent food.

Hi djdarren, thanks for your helpful comment! Unfortunately this community has a rule that only women are permitted to comment or post, so please refrain from commenting further.

I hope you understand 💛

I mean, to be fair a pound of tea is a LOT of tea by volume.

Oh, I'm VERY sorry, I didn't see the community name!

zips it

I am amazed at how expensives sandwiches are these days. Even the cheap supermarket ones are no longer cheap.

It's a few months' supply, yes. I probably go through about five pounds a year.

i've gone snowboarding a few times. haven't been able to afford it for years though.

Bit late but technically they don't own it, they lease it for max. 70 years and then it gets back into the hands of the community

Buying my used car with cash. It's the single most expensive thing I've ever bought not counting rent or my degree.

I also drink lattes which is why I can't afford a home