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Interview: Mary Wiseman On Tilly Settling In As A ‘Starfleet Academy’ Teacher And Dealing With Toxic Fans
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FlexibleToast lemmy.world FlexibleToast@lemmy.world
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Tilly is in this show? Well, I'm glad I never started watching it.

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MurrayL lemmy.world MurrayL@lemmy.world
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Tilly is in this show? Well, I'm glad I never started watching it.

She’s a guest star in a single episode.

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MadMadBunny lemmy.ca MadMadBunny@lemmy.ca
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Tilly is in this show? Well, I'm glad I never started watching it.

Found one of the toxic fans.

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haverholm kbin.earth haverholm@kbin.earth
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Tilly is in this show? Well, I'm glad I never started watching it.

anonymous individuals who can work out some of whatever’s going on in their own lives, be it rage or, you know, self-loathing, and then put that onto you.

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Sanctus anarchist.nexus Sanctus@anarchist.nexus
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I dont get the hate. Tilly is one of the most memorable characters from discovery.

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ValueSubtracted Moderator ValueSubtracted@startrek.website
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Tilly is in this show? Well, I'm glad I never started watching it.

Hey look, it's the guy from the article!

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BreadOven lemmy.world BreadOven@lemmy.world
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Why the hate? I thought she was good in whatever series I saw her in (can't recall the name, but she was a main character).

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The Bard in Green lemmy.starlightkel.xyz thebardingreen@lemmy.starlightkel.xyz
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As someone who doesn't usually connect with modern Trek, I've really been enjoying Academy and Life Of The Stars was one of my favorite Trek episodes of all time. Not many Trek episodes have made me cry like a little girl.

Disco was blessed with a bunch of very talented actors, but constantly plagued with terrible writing. It was lovely to see Wiseman on Academy.

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FlexibleToast lemmy.world FlexibleToast@lemmy.world
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She’s a guest star in a single episode.

From what I've seen this show seems more like Discovery than classic Trek. Having Tilly show up confirms that for me. That's a no thanks from me.

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FlexibleToast lemmy.world FlexibleToast@lemmy.world
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Found one of the toxic fans.

Sure, if it makes you feel better to call me that. I just don't care for the direction Trek went with Discovery. I do like SNW though.

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MurrayL lemmy.world MurrayL@lemmy.world
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From what I've seen this show seems more like Discovery than classic Trek. Having Tilly show up confirms that for me. That's a no thanks from me.

I couldn’t stand Discovery but Academy very quickly won me over.

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FlexibleToast lemmy.world FlexibleToast@lemmy.world
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I couldn’t stand Discovery but Academy very quickly won me over.

I mean, it's Trek. I'll probably eventually give it a shot. But the stench of Discovery is all over this one.

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FlexibleToast lemmy.world FlexibleToast@lemmy.world
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Hey look, it's the guy from the article!

Is it toxic to not like a poorly written character? I have absolutely nothing against the actress and wouldn't ever wish harm on an actor/actress just because of a character they portrayed. Are we not allowed to have differing opinions on art?

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FlexibleToast lemmy.world FlexibleToast@lemmy.world
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anonymous individuals who can work out some of whatever’s going on in their own lives, be it rage or, you know, self-loathing, and then put that onto you.

That quote is funny. I'm pretty sure she meant can't not can. But yes, I can work those things out and don't need to put them on others. I'm not sure why saying I don't like a specific character would make you assume otherwise. That's a massive jump to a conclusion.

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ValueSubtracted Moderator ValueSubtracted@startrek.website
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Is it toxic to not like a poorly written character? I have absolutely nothing against the actress and wouldn't ever wish harm on an actor/actress just because of a character they portrayed. Are we not allowed to have differing opinions on art?

Wandering the internet to loudly declare your disinterest in things?

Besides time-consuming (it's a big Fediverse, so you must not get a lot of sleep)...yeah, kind of toxic.

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FlexibleToast lemmy.world FlexibleToast@lemmy.world
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Wandering the internet to loudly declare your disinterest in things? Besides time-consuming (it's a big Fediverse, so you must not get a lot of sleep)...yeah, kind of toxic.

It was in the hot feed... It's not like I did a ton of "wandering". One post is hardly "loudly" declaring anything. What's louder is all the people jumping to conclusions about who I am as a person and as a fan from the one comment.

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ValueSubtracted Moderator ValueSubtracted@startrek.website
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It was in the hot feed... It's not like I did a ton of "wandering". One post is hardly "loudly" declaring anything. What's louder is all the people jumping to conclusions about who I am as a person and as a fan from the one comment.

True, I did forget the Must Reply To Everything in the Hot Feed rule.

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The Incredible G mastodon.social The_Incredible_G@mastodon.social
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@ValueSubtracted Tilly seemed very much autistic coded... which I like to be honest. I like that neurodiversity is being seen - especially in Trek. Tilly being in a leadership role is awesome. It challenges the stigma of us being problematic in a leadership position. :3

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FlexibleToast lemmy.world FlexibleToast@lemmy.world
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True, I did forget the Must Reply To Everything in the Hot Feed rule.

No, I think you forgot about the people are allowed to have differing opinions about things rule. Generally I love Trek. I did not like Discovery or Picard (I did hear Picard got better in later episodes), but I like everything else. The character Tilly was one of the specific things I didn't like about Discovery. Life isn't a weird dichotomy where people love or hate everything. People aren't only super fans or toxic fans. There is a wide swatch of people in between. As a Trek fan I would think you would be especially aware of all the gray area in between. I don't know what drives you to attack me as a person for stating an opinion on a fictional character... I hope you get over that some day.

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haverholm kbin.earth haverholm@kbin.earth
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Why the hate? I thought she was good in whatever series I saw her in (can't recall the name, but she was a main character).

Discovery. She was a constant MVP in that from her first appearance.

"I'll call you Mickey; I think that's a little more approachable."

"No you won't."

"Okay, no I won't."

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_NetNomad fedia.io _NetNomad@fedia.io
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aside from being a great episode of Academy, this episode was also a perfect coda to Discovery. Tilly got to be the person she needed back in the day

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CmdrShepard49 sh.itjust.works CmdrShepard49@sh.itjust.works
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Is it toxic to not like a poorly written character? I have absolutely nothing against the actress and wouldn't ever wish harm on an actor/actress just because of a character they portrayed. Are we not allowed to have differing opinions on art?

Well it's a different show with different writers and she isn't playing the timid and anxious character she was in early Discovery.

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CmdrShepard49 sh.itjust.works CmdrShepard49@sh.itjust.works
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It was in the hot feed... It's not like I did a ton of "wandering". One post is hardly "loudly" declaring anything. What's louder is all the people jumping to conclusions about who I am as a person and as a fan from the one comment.

the people jumping to conclusions about who I am as a person and as a fan from the one comment.

Like jumping to conclusions about a show you haven't watched based on one headline?

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FlexibleToast lemmy.world FlexibleToast@lemmy.world
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the people jumping to conclusions about who I am as a person and as a fan from the one comment. Like jumping to conclusions about a show you haven't watched based on one headline?

Nope, I've seen others and have seen reviews. But, you just made another assumption about me.

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FlexibleToast lemmy.world FlexibleToast@lemmy.world
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Well it's a different show with different writers and she isn't playing the timid and anxious character she was in early Discovery.

Her being timid wasn't really the part of her character I didn't like. The fact that she was timid was her only character flaw was what made her a week character. Like she never struggled other than to accept that she was capable of doing things.

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haverholm kbin.earth haverholm@kbin.earth
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I dont get the hate. Tilly is one of the most memorable characters from discovery.

AFAICT it's literally one single user carpet bombing the thread with their inane opinions sifted from the YT outrage machine. I blocked them immediately, and abracadabra. Everything else is a Tilly love fest.

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scarabic lemmy.world scarabic@lemmy.world
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Jesus this was hard to read.

Yeah, that’s a great question. It’s tricky, because a lot of times in acting, you want to kind of give what you receive. And so I felt like what I needed to hold, and what I was reminded of by the director and Alex and everybody involved, is that she’s affected by by this and what this girl is going through and how this girl is responding to her, but also, she’s in a position now where she’s a teacher and responsible for this cadet, and needs to hold things together to guide her through this really difficult experience, which was a really fun thing to play, and really the dynamic in the playing of it was how to empathize with her and receive what Tarima was experiencing and going through and try to steer the ship where I thought it needed to go in order for her to move through this experience and heal and be able to come out better on the other end.

Something something people experiencing emotions and people experiencing emotions about people experiencing emotions. Damn.

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scarabic lemmy.world scarabic@lemmy.world
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Is it toxic to not like a poorly written character? I have absolutely nothing against the actress and wouldn't ever wish harm on an actor/actress just because of a character they portrayed. Are we not allowed to have differing opinions on art?

Well, it is somewhat obnoxious to show up and say “hey! I’m here and I don’t know what I’m talking about!”

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FlexibleToast lemmy.world FlexibleToast@lemmy.world
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Well, it is somewhat obnoxious to show up and say “hey! I’m here and I don’t know what I’m talking about!”

I would accept obnoxious. I don't think it is obnoxious to add a comment to a forum, but I understand that viewpoint. I just think it's a far way from toxic.

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scarabic lemmy.world scarabic@lemmy.world
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I would accept obnoxious. I don't think it is obnoxious to add a comment to a forum, but I understand that viewpoint. I just think it's a far way from toxic.

Let’s understand the word “toxic” though. We use the word “toxic” when a relationship or subject has become so radioactive that anything going into it comes out bad, even if innocently intended. Hating on Tilly is pretty toxic now, following an overwhelming amount of pointless hate online. You didn’t create that entire cloud of toxicity with one comment. No one could. But you walked into it. If you just want to innocently express your distaste for this character, you should probably be mad at all the people who made that impossible by flooding the dialogue with mean, stupid hate. Because at this point, making an unqualified swipe at her has gone toxic. If you have something meaningful and critical to say, say it. If you just want to make a jab, yeah, I’m afraid that is toxic now. You can claim you didn’t know, etc but you gotta read the room as it were. Or the room will spell itself out for you, as happened here.

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FlexibleToast lemmy.world FlexibleToast@lemmy.world
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Let’s understand the word “toxic” though. We use the word “toxic” when a relationship or subject has become so radioactive that anything going into it comes out bad, even if innocently intended. Hating on Tilly is pretty toxic now, following an overwhelming amount of pointless hate online. You didn’t create that entire cloud of toxicity with one comment. No one could. But you walked into it. If...

Nah, I can be mad at the toxic people and the people over reacting. Both are too extreme reactions to each other.

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