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What should one give to the homeless population besides money? If you were homeless at one time, what did you need besides money?
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CaptainMan251 lemmy.world CaptainMan251@lemmy.world
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MantisToboggon lemmy.world MantisToboggon@lemmy.world
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Handjobs.

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๐Ÿ‡ฐ ๐ŸŒ€ ๐Ÿ‡ฑ ๐Ÿ‡ฆ ๐Ÿ‡ณ ๐Ÿ‡ฆ ๐Ÿ‡ฐ ๐Ÿ‡ฎ pawb.social Kolanaki@pawb.social
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Back when I could afford it, I gave out care packages with foods that could keep without refrigeration and didn't have to be cooked, basic first-aid supplies, reading material, warm socks, and 2 joints. I'd also want to include hygene products but other than women specific needs and deordorant, there's not much in the way I could think of that could work even if they don't have access to water.

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abbadon420 sh.itjust.works abbadon420@sh.itjust.works
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Handjobs.

Or any other job that pays a living wage.

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VitoRobles lemmy.today VitoRobles@lemmy.today
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Socks. Underwear. For women, hygiene products.

When I was text book definition homeless (I slept on couches for half a year during college), all I wanted was cheap rent. I feel like we tend to only focus on the homeless we see with our eyes, and not the homeless families out there living in shelters.

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Devolution lemmy.world devolution@lemmy.world
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Therapy. Many of the homeless have mental illness and/or substance dependency.

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Ada piefed.blahaj.zone ada@piefed.blahaj.zone
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Homes. Things like the Tiny Homes project make a huge difference to peoples ability to get back on their feet and access other support channels

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i_stole_ur_taco lemmy.ca i_stole_ur_taco@lemmy.ca
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Handjobs.

โ€œHandjobs not handouts!โ€

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MantisToboggon lemmy.world MantisToboggon@lemmy.world
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Or any other job that pays a living wage.

A handjob is still a job.

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definitely_AI feddit.online definitely_AI@feddit.online
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Food, beer, and weed. Not necessarily in that order. We can provide for ourselves pretty well. But those three definitely help with day to day life quality.

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โ„•๐•–๐•ž๐•  slrpnk.net Nemo@slrpnk.net
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If you are able to do a load of laundry for them, that's a huge help.

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Drusas fedia.io Drusas@fedia.io
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I needed a place to stay where I could sleep, eat, bathe, and apply for jobs (so, internet). I also needed rides to go check out a few cars before I had one of my own. And a place to store a few boxes of belongings.

Physical items would not have helped me in any way (unless you include housing and a car in that--where I was had no public transit).

Edit: There was a very brief period where access to a washer/dryer would have been amazing. Failing that, new underwear and socks.

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bluGill fedia.io bluGill@fedia.io
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better laws.

if houses/apartments are expensive the poor lose first so ensure it is legal to build tiny houses, shared bathroom/kitchen apartments... ensure there isn't so much paperwork that only expensive places can apply. Be careful about tenat rights - they are needed but don't lost sight of landlord rights in the process.

some are homeless because society has left no optians - things are getting better but there are still some out there that can't be anything else because if they get a job their ex takes all they earn anyway.

Unfortunantly the problem is hard. we know from painful experience that the abuse in institutions is often so bad risking freezing to death is the more human option. Be careful that what you propose / support isn't also worse.

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roofuskit lemmy.world roofuskit@lemmy.world
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Unconditional shelter.

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tiredofsametab fedia.io tiredofsametab@fedia.io
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When I lived out of my car, peanut butter was my main staple since it would survive well at about any temperature. I survived off that, bread from a bakery outlet, and, when the weather was cool enough, cheese.

Edit: for non-food, grooming/hygiene supplies are generally good.

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Zier fedia.io Zier@fedia.io
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Shoes (not worn out)
Socks
Clean Clothes
A Warm Coat
A Blanket
Food that does not require refrigeration or cooking.
Soap
Toothbrush, Toothpaste

That would be the minimum to at least help.
Money
Shelter
Compassion
Job Training
Employment
is really what the homeless community needs.

And to prevent homelessness we need;
Jobs with a livable wage
Workers rights
Tax the rich
Public, affordable healthcare, which includes dental & vision.

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CaptainMan251 lemmy.world CaptainMan251@lemmy.world
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Food, beer, and weed. Not necessarily in that order. We can provide for ourselves pretty well. But those three definitely help with day to day life quality.

Lots of alcoholism in the homeless community. Happy to give a little weed though

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FinjaminPoach lemmy.world FinjaminPoach@lemmy.world
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Uranus_Hz lemmy.zip Uranus_Hz@lemmy.zip
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New socks are always appreciated.

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thinkercharmercoderfarmer slrpnk.net thinkercharmercoderfarmer@slrpnk.net
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Why would you want to be driven to smaller towns?

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fubarx lemmy.world fubarx@lemmy.world
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When we lived in a big city, we would hit the occasional Costco sale, then go out and hand out blankets, tents, tarps, water, socks, and warm clothing. Also, toys and school supplies.

In a smaller city, donations to the local food and housing groups, school fundraisers to help cover costs for books and supplies for those who can't afford it, and refilling the neighborhood open-access fridge.

Basic responsibility to pay it forward.

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corsicanguppy lemmy.ca corsicanguppy@lemmy.ca
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better laws. if houses/apartments are expensive the poor lose first so ensure it is legal to build tiny houses, shared bathroom/kitchen apartments... ensure there isn't so much paperwork that only expensive places can apply. Be careful about tenat rights - they are needed but don't lost sight of landlord rights in the process. some are homeless because society has left no optians - things are g...

We don't have the luxury of space to build out mini-bunglow sprawl. We're already over capacity with the regular sprawl. This notion that we all deserve white picket-fenced yards is antiquated.

Better laws means actual affordable housing: subsidized housing based on income levels, so the poorest can have a place to sleep and bathe securely and peacefully. There's nothing that necessitates tiny bungalow jungles and the hideous infrastructure convolutions they demand.

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definitely_AI feddit.online definitely_AI@feddit.online
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Lots of alcoholism in the homeless community. Happy to give a little weed though

Can't fucking believe someone downvoted us for speaking our mind. No worries, I'm used to it. Get a lot worse on the street, just bizarre how disconnected from reality some people are.

Yeah, lots of alcoholics. I mean lots of drugs overall. A lot of the times it's the reason we become homeless. A lot of the rest of the time we become addicts after becoming homeless. You hang out with the same people day in day out, and it becomes like kind of a fraternity. In some weird way it's more honest than "housed society". It's like, it reminded me a lot of the army in a way. You're constantly on your feet, constantly working, constantly hustling, constantly hungry, constantly fighting, constantly on edge, right? And just like in the army you quickly grow tight knit connections with people, because you go through the same fucking struggle every day, not necessarily together, but sometimes, but in any case, at the end of the day, there's no pretention, there's no grandstanding, we're all a bunch of dirty old bums scrounging for food in trash cans, there's no room for formalities if you catch my drift.

You ever been homeless? It's... A humbling experience. A valuable one. Sure as fuck makes you appreciate everything around you a lot more, and sure as fuck makes you realize just how little you actually need to survive, and how bountiful society actually is, and how fighting for survival awakes deep primal instincts in you that you didn't know you had.

Sorry for rambling, just happened I suppose. Peace.

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HobbitFoot thelemmy.club HobbitFoot@thelemmy.club
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We don't have the luxury of space to build out mini-bunglow sprawl. We're already over capacity with the regular sprawl. This notion that we all deserve white picket-fenced yards is antiquated. Better laws means actual affordable housing: subsidized housing based on income levels, so the poorest can have a place to sleep and bathe securely and peacefully. There's nothing that necessitates tiny ...

Stewart Hicks noted that a lot of housing being built now are urban studios.

https://youtu.be/ejPOLhfBpy8

This kind of housing is in very high demand, but it can only really get built in places with decent transit.

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kbobabob lemmy.dbzer0.com kbobabob@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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Therapy. Many of the homeless have mental illness and/or substance dependency.

I don't think I'm qualified to hand that out.

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Devolution lemmy.world devolution@lemmy.world
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I don't think I'm qualified to hand that out.

And that's a shame. If in the US, I'm sorry. If in Europe, there's resources.

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TheOSINTguy sh.itjust.works TheOSINTguy@sh.itjust.works
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I have known a few homeless people, and it's mostly socks, good footwear that can take a daily beating for years on end. And someone to give them a chance to work and improve their situation.

Never donate anything made of cotton in the winter. It kills people.

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