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Cherry
piefed.social
Cherry@piefed.socialJoined: 2025-06-05 |
Inspired by a few other posts and memes flying about. When I was young movies and tbh real life you would come across old people telling you that can’t trust the gov. To keep your cash at home etc. tell em nothing. I am feeling it. I always assumed maybe about 60 it will happen to me. I kinda linked it to idle minds or a cognitive decline but lack of trust for me has arrived a lot earlier and I think I can rationalise to myself it’s more based on the gov actions rather than my circumstances. So wha do you think in the magic age number that trust in the gov erodes? I’ll start. 42. |
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RobotToaster
mander.xyz
RobotToaster@mander.xyzJoined: 2023-09-13 |
I think mine was around 13. |
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EgoNo4
lemmy.world
EgoNo4@lemmy.world Joined: 2023-09-29 |
Not necessarily stop trusting it, but realize they're either corrupt or incompetent... Or worse, both. Also, 35... |
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Ensign_Crab
lemmy.world
Ensign_Crab@lemmy.world Joined: 2023-06-29 |
At what advanced age do you start? |
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feminisnuss
lemmy.duckpond.social
feminisnuss@lemmy.duckpond.social Joined: 2026-02-17 |
I think I was around 13, but I'm also quite a few years younger in general. I have the feeling that especially gen z started to get political at younger ages than recent older generations, maybe due to growing up with access to so much information. |
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PonyOfWar
pawb.social
PonyOfWar@pawb.social Joined: 2023-06-12 |
I would have said around 15-16, but I think it's also important to note that there are many degrees of trust between blindly trusting everything the government does and becoming some kind of "sovereign citizen". I believe the government often doesn't act in the people's best interest and that many politicians are fundamentally corrupt. I do believe our institutions mostly manage to uphold our constitution though, and that my country has a functioning democracy. I don't keep all my money in cash at home, that seems both paranoid and unsafe. |
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Mothra
mander.xyz
Mothra@mander.xyzJoined: 2023-06-02 |
This depends a lot on where you live, under what kind of government, your socioeconomic background and the personality of your close friends and family. I grew up in Argentina and I don't think anyone believes they can really trust the government. Consensus among high school kids is that everyone is corrupt and exploiting legal loopholes is considered the norm. Now I can't say there was much of a privacy concern in my circles, in my experience, and that's still the case today, decades later, in a totally different country. So yeah it depends a lot on a lot. |
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Mark with a Z
suppo.fi
markz@suppo.fi Joined: 2025-07-04 |
It would help if you specified which government. |
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Cherry
piefed.social
Cherry@piefed.socialJoined: 2025-06-05 |
I would have said around 15-16, but I think it's also important to note that there are many degrees of trust between blindly trusting everything the government does and becoming some kind of "sovereign citizen". I believe the government often doesn't act in the people's best interest and that many politicians are fundamentally corrupt. I do believe our institutions mostly manage to uphold our c...
That's a good point. What is the line? I think for me it is two things. The voicing. Saying to others I do not trust them - usually followed by discourse and reasoning/grassroots activism Taking steps to protects yourself/or obscure - for example starting to use cash or taking steps to avoid being surveilled. I sound like my dad...keep ya cash close and tell em nothing
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Cherry
piefed.social
Cherry@piefed.socialJoined: 2025-06-05 |
It would help if you specified which government.
At this stage I would be surprised if there is a common majority of any countries gov...which do you think can be trusted? |
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zxqwas
lemmy.world
zxqwas@lemmy.world Joined: 2023-07-24 |
Don't trust what politicians say, watch what they do. They are remarkably consistent then. |
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Fizz
lemmy.nz
Fizz@lemmy.nzJoined: 2023-06-12 |
The older I get the more I trust it. The government is generally pretty large and reliable. Seeing random scandals and over indexing on is a common issue. People love to make shit up and lie because they have no interest in the boring truth. |
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exaybachae
startrek.website
exaybachae@startrek.websiteJoined: 2026-02-16 |
I was around 10. |
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OriginEnergySux
lemmy.world
OriginEnergySux@lemmy.worldJoined: 2026-02-02 |
I never truly trusted the government 100% from when i was a teenager. I get that we need a government to ensure "things work" and they need us to "turn the gears", but that's as far as it goes. They aint looking out for you |
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Pat_Riot
lemmy.today
Pat_Riot@lemmy.todayJoined: 2023-09-29 |
I was raised to trust neither the government nor law enforcement. |
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「黃家駒 Wong Ka Kui」(old account, migrated to Piefed)
sh.itjust.works
DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.worksJoined: 2025-06-23 |
Sometime between the age of 8 and 12 I remember I started to question authority, not government of countries specifically, but just the concept of authority. I always felt like teachers were against me for some reason... frequently I got marked for "bad behavior" and weren't allowed to go on trips... Then I learned about Tiananmen... for context my family were all born in China... my older brother who actually went through like 7th grade in China was so shocked learned about it in the US and I remember him telling me to look it up online... Then I remember my mom started telling me about the One Child Policy and how I was the one born against policy... So yeah... you can see how I'm starting to get very skeptical of things Then I learn about all the bribery stuff in US Congress, SuperPACs... etc... US Cops shooting people and getting away with it... The infamous Gun Trace Task Force of Baltimore The Great Firewall of China and the censorship... Then my "arc" completed when I was 17 and got arrested on false accusations of "agravated assault" when I was acting in self-defence against a racist bully in school... even the school admin sided against me and tried to expell me... So by age 18, I distrust governments... and authorities in general... Especially the PRC Government and the US Government I mean distrusting authorities is a very American thing to do... (Distrust PRC significantly more intensely because of the fact that they tried to end my existence) |
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frank
sopuli.xyz
frank@sopuli.xyz Joined: 2023-06-05 |
At this stage I would be surprised if there is a common majority of any countries gov...which do you think can be trusted?
I think trust in government is generally really high here in Scandinavia |
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Cherry
piefed.social
Cherry@piefed.socialJoined: 2025-06-05 |
I think trust in government is generally really high here in Scandinavia
That was one of my few thoughts |
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Cherry
piefed.social
Cherry@piefed.socialJoined: 2025-06-05 |
The older I get the more I trust it. The government is generally pretty large and reliable. Seeing random scandals and over indexing on is a common issue. People love to make shit up and lie because they have no interest in the boring truth.
Why do you trust them? What are the indicators you see? |
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daggermoon
piefed.world
daggermoon@piefed.worldJoined: 2026-03-01 |
I probably stopped trusting it when I was a 16 year old libertarian. |
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Rhynoplaz
lemmy.world
Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world Joined: 2023-07-07 |
I probably stopped trusting the government around age 10. After going through and reading others' answers, I'm curious if you still think it's "an old man thing". |
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BrianTheeBiscuiteer
lemmy.world
BrianTheeBiscuiteer@lemmy.world Joined: 2023-06-17 |
19, when 9-11 occurred. I was a truther for a while, not anymore, but ever since then it's been year after year of disappointment. Obama almost got us back on track but didn't have the guts to do things like completely close Gitmo or put an end to mass surveillance. |
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ℕ𝕖𝕞𝕠
slrpnk.net
Nemo@slrpnk.netJoined: 2023-07-01 |
I was never raised to trust the government in the first place. |
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Zorsith
lemmy.blahaj.zone
Zorsith@lemmy.blahaj.zoneJoined: 2024-03-01 |
Trust would have had to be earned in the first place to have stopped. My understanding of the US government was shaped by being raised on a military base in the UK, 9/11 happened but was never exaggerated or propagandized to the degree that it apparently was in the US. |
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Quilotoa
lemmy.ca
Quilotoa@lemmy.ca Joined: 2025-04-01 |
I think it depends on the trustworthiness of your government. Even then, it's a scale that slides depending on the situation. I'm in my 70s and feel my government is going through a very solid stage right now. My trust level is at one of the highest level. |
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Skullgrid
lemmy.world
Skullgrid@lemmy.worldJoined: 2023-06-29 |
what age do you stop trusting the alternative to government, which is corporations? let me just remind you that at least the government is voted in, wheras corporations are just any assholes with enough money to buy things and pay wages. |
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snooggums
piefed.world
snooggums@piefed.world Joined: 2025-07-08 |
18 when I was able to vote and started paying attention to what politicians said and did. So that would make it voting age. After that you can trust individuals who run the government, but even trustworthy people in power can be held up by institutional inertia like police unions. |
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TomMasz
piefed.social
TomMasz@piefed.socialJoined: 2025-06-07 |
It's not just age, it's when you're living. Someone growing up in the '50s probably had more trust in the government than someone growing up in the '60s, for instance. But it really feels like overall trust has dropped significantly since then and probably won't recover. Part of the reason is we simply know more about what's going on. There are still secrets, but not like there were in WWII and the decade after. |
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AskewLord
piefed.social
AskewLord@piefed.social Joined: 2026-01-16 |
When I was about 20 in college I learned that saying shit like 'the government' is stupid. Because there is no 'the government'. There are agencies, institutions, and individuals in the government. All with varying levels of competence and corruption and incentives. Some of them are amazing, others are really shitty. Just like people or companies or anything. There are also multiple levels of government and so many people are angry at the feds over property taxes which has nothing to do with the feds. And I learned to avoid interacting with people who think in massive generalized terms about anything, because they tend to be very emotional and very irrational. |
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Cherry
piefed.social
Cherry@piefed.socialJoined: 2025-06-05 |
what age do you stop trusting the alternative to government, which is corporations? let me just remind you that at least the government is voted in, wheras corporations are just any assholes with enough money to buy things and pay wages.
I have never trusted them, I stupidly fell into the might be ok as someone will step up and regulate but I’ve been making steps to stop and protect more of my privacy. |
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Endymion_Mallorn
kbin.melroy.org
Endymion_Mallorn@kbin.melroy.orgJoined: 2024-11-17 |
For me, it was somewhere around 14. Maybe younger. |
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gwl [he/him]
lemmy.blahaj.zone
gwl@lemmy.blahaj.zoneJoined: 2025-10-16 |
what age do you stop trusting the alternative to government, which is corporations? let me just remind you that at least the government is voted in, wheras corporations are just any assholes with enough money to buy things and pay wages.
They're not mutually exclusive? You can and should not trust either |
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TrickDacy
lemmy.world
TrickDacy@lemmy.worldJoined: 2023-07-27 |
For me, the second I understood what war really was, it was clear that governments are often evil and shouldn't be trusted. That was probably around age 12. |
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Count Regal Inkwell
pawb.social
VinesNFluff@pawb.socialJoined: 2023-06-27 |
As soon as I knew what a government was. Age 12ish Took another 18 years for me to actually have articulated reasons why other than "feels* |
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InvalidName2
lemmy.zip
InvalidName2@lemmy.zip Joined: 2025-07-10 |
I don't honestly believe such a number exists, but also, I think the age aspect of it is almost or entirely irrelevant. |
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Skullgrid
lemmy.world
Skullgrid@lemmy.worldJoined: 2023-06-29 |
They're not mutually exclusive? You can and should not trust either
yes, go live in the nonexistent commune; it's a solution for 8 billion people. |
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gwl [he/him]
lemmy.blahaj.zone
gwl@lemmy.blahaj.zoneJoined: 2025-10-16 |
yes, go live in the nonexistent commune; it's a solution for 8 billion people.
You can not trust something and still live under it. It's about being aware that you should be prepared for if things get worse. |
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Dearth
lemmy.world
Dearth@lemmy.world Joined: 2024-03-30 |
I was 16 on 9/11. I remember watching john Ashcroft the Friday before talking about how the Pentagon couldn't account for billions of dollars. Then i wake up on Monday morning to the planes hitting the towers. I stopped trusting the government sometime around there |
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Bizzle
lemmy.world
bizzle@lemmy.worldJoined: 2023-06-12 |
Few months after 9/11 is when I figured it out so I was like 7 or 8 |
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moondoggie
lemmy.world
moondoggie@lemmy.worldJoined: 2023-07-06 |
I was around 12 and to this day I think that was the most corrupt student council we had. |
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Fizz
lemmy.nz
Fizz@lemmy.nzJoined: 2023-06-12 |
Why do you trust them? What are the indicators you see?
Ive worked for them and seen how things run. Its pretty normal and non ominous. The government it department was very well run, efficient, highly skilled, good worker rights. Nothing to complain about other than salaries being a bit lower than private sector. My mum works for a welfare department and she also echo's that its just people doing their job and everything I said except the efficiency aspect because its a lot of face to face empathic type tasks you can't optimise it without making it souless. As for the political parties themselves they are directly a representative of the population. The fact that some parities are incompetent and racist is exactly what I see reflected from half my country. I look at what they say and what they vote on and it tracks pretty closely. These people all seem to think they are improving the country even the ones who are fucking it up (looking at you David Seymour and Rawiri Waititi). But I'm lucky to live in a country with low-ish corruption. |
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UnpledgedCatnapTipper
piefed.blahaj.zone
UnpledgedCatnapTipper@piefed.blahaj.zone Joined: 2025-08-13 |
I trust some parts of government to be useful. Like food assistance or healthcare are useful and should be expanded. I don't trust that politicians will keep the useful parts useful though. Also gotta keep this in mind. |
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BurgerBaron
piefed.social
BurgerBaron@piefed.socialJoined: 2025-06-25 |
Exceptionally young, around 8 years old. Same goes for religious people lying to me. |
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thermal_shock
lemmy.world
thermal_shock@lemmy.world Joined: 2023-06-30 |
I was raised to trust neither the government nor law enforcement.
Good. |
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Heyla
quokk.au
Heyla@quokk.au Joined: 2026-01-22 |
11y 👀 |
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CanadaPlus
lemmy.sdf.org
CanadaPlus@lemmy.sdf.org Joined: 2023-06-12 |
Not every generation is the same. Many old people where I live and today still seem to trust it a lot, while the ones from when you were a kid probably saw WWII and the Great Depression. What I'm saying is, it's less an age, and more what you've lived through. |
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CanadaPlus
lemmy.sdf.org
CanadaPlus@lemmy.sdf.org Joined: 2023-06-12 |
When I was about 20 in college I learned that saying shit like 'the government' is stupid. Because there is no 'the government'. There are agencies, institutions, and individuals in the government. All with varying levels of competence and corruption and incentives. Some of them are amazing, others are really shitty. Just like people or companies or anything. There are also multiple levels of g...
Sadly, most people who understand this seem to just lurk. Maybe each unhinged commenter scares away a nuanced commenter and a bit, until some kind of equilibrium is reached. |
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Timecircleline
sh.itjust.works
Timecircleline@sh.itjust.works Joined: 2023-07-11 |
When I was about 20 in college I learned that saying shit like 'the government' is stupid. Because there is no 'the government'. There are agencies, institutions, and individuals in the government. All with varying levels of competence and corruption and incentives. Some of them are amazing, others are really shitty. Just like people or companies or anything. There are also multiple levels of g...
I fully endorse this point, but with an added caveat. The government is made up of people, just like any other organization, but there is often less money to be had in the public sector than the private sector (corruption notwithstanding) so often you wind up with people passionate about their work, but occasionally you have people who aren't talented enough to hack it in the private sector. |
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