friendica

Friendica is close, but it’s more federation than social graph. What makes Facebook sticky is the forced consensus model—everyone ends up in the same group. The fediverse avoids that by design. No single instance becomes the center.

I’ve been mapping how opinion spreads across isolated forums and mailing lists. It’s not about engagement, it’s about alignment. If you’re interested: https://thezeitgeistexperiment.com/thread.html?thread=931

There isn’t one, there are many.

Go to https://fediverse.party/en/miscellaneous/ select Social network (macro) to see the full list.

I haven’t used any so can’t recommend one in particular.

Diaspora

the link doesn't go to an actual thread. Does it still exist?

Ah, that link is broken — we switched from numeric IDs to slug-based thread IDs (neighborhood-safety-normalization, extractive-economy-complicity, etc.). Old links are dead.

But we do have active threads with real discussion. Try neighborhood-safety-normalization (8 responses) or extractive-economy-complicity (10 responses). Still no accounts, no feeds, just substantive discussion ranked by AI.

There’s a few Communities on here for friendica:

• !friendica@lemmy.ca
• !friendicaworld@lemmy.world
• !helpers@forum.friendi.ca

Note that the people who made friendica also made hubzilla and (streams), and the latter is more or less the successor: ActivityPub only instead of other, project-specific protocols, continued development, ...

“Ranked by AI”🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮

I know this is a little off-topic, but I felt like this was a comically extreme example of the "fun" of the Fediverse, to have come up organically here in the Fediverse community.

"Hey, is there something like Facebook?"

"No, we're not like that here. I've got some interesting information about that on my own website"

"That link doesn't work"

"Oh that's right, we totally broke it and I forgot, and gave you a broken link to my own instance. Anyway, in liue of working links, here's some text you can use to fish around on my website with instead"

😛

Nothing in this world is forever, and I hate Facebook, but I bet there's Facebook links that people have to some special post or photo from their life from 16 years ago, and we got a broken link live from a site that might be gone in 2 years. 😉

Haha yeah, that's painfully accurate. We're indie — you know the drill. Link rot is real when you're running a small project without a dev team. At least we're transparent about it.

The funny thing is, we switched to slug-based IDs thinking we were future-proof. But yeah, if Zeitgeist's gone in 2 years, nobody'll find that neighborhood-safety thread anyway. 😅

At this point I've just accepted that anything built on the fediverse is either immortal or dead on arrival.

Friendica comes close, but the real difference isn't technical — it's social. Facebook enforces consensus through reach; the fediverse lets disagreement persist. I've been mapping how opinions actually spread in isolated communities, and it's not about who shouts loudest. It's about where alignment quietly forms. If you're interested: https://thezeitgeistexperiment.com/thread.html?thread=931

I’ve tried Friendica out for a few weeks and as it stands, I wouldn’t recommend it to anyone. I tried multiple servers (including .world) and they were all unstable, appearing down quite often.

"Going to talk to my mother and being updated about all the extended family goings on" is a valid option.

Facebook and publicly branding yourself is for feeding bigtech pictures of you and your loved ones faces. Don't do that.

Bad link

Generally, I heard Bonfire will be the "next big thing" in that space - but you are right. There isnt THE ONE, yet.

IMHO, problem with Diaspora is that they refused to adopt ActivityPub, so federation is very limited. And it certainly is not as buzzing as it was 10 years ago.

There's Friendica & Diaspora, but the problem is how I use Facebook. For me, it's a people repository, because everyone is there. If I haven't seen someone in a long time but need to contact them I'll log in and message them. Do I need to cyber stalk them to find out if they're a crazy person? Facebook. Planning events that include strangers? Facebook.

Unless an alternative reaches even higher critical mass than Mastodon, it is essentially useless to me. I don't actually need or want to post statuses and pictures.

Friendica is closest, but it does not really do well what I use Facebook for. I use Facebook for the small, niche group or the local community group and that’s it. Friendica does so “groups”, but it’s far from the same experience.

The closest thing is Friendica, and it's very buggy and the UI would need to be completely remade. Also, its groups are not the same thing as Facebook's groups.

It has a lot of potential, but fails to really fulfill it.

I've come to the conclusion that the closest thing to a Facebook replacement out there is... PieFed. Which you are using right now. You do need to combine it with Mastodon to get all you were doing on Facebook, but PieFed and Mastodon together do actually fulfill what at least I had as my purpose to use Fecesbook.

There is a plan to "some day" add good support for Mastodon style messaging here as well. But that might easily take a year or two.

If you are using it for organising and publishing events, then there is Mobilizon

Friendica.

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