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The Picard Maneuver lemmy.world The_Picard_Maneuver@lemmy.world
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thagoat lemmy.dbzer0.com thagoat@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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Is it because of Jeff Gordon? Is that why 24 is gay?

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JusticeForPorygon lemmy.blahaj.zone JusticeForPorygon@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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#3 · Quote Reply

Is it because of Jeff Gordon? Is that why 24 is gay?

Until I'm corrected I'm gonna assume this is why

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The Picard Maneuver lemmy.world The_Picard_Maneuver@lemmy.world
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#4 · Quote Reply

Is it because of Jeff Gordon? Is that why 24 is gay?

I looked it up, and allegedly it comes from a well known gambling game about animals, in which 24 is a deer, and "deer" sounds similar to a slur.

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Lvxferre [he/him] mander.xyz lvxferre@mander.xyz
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#5 · Quote Reply

Is it because of Jeff Gordon? Is that why 24 is gay?
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expatriado lemmy.world expatriado@lemmy.world
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#6 · Quote Reply

til "years" in Portuguese is spelled like "anus" in Spanish

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BandanaBug piefed.social BandanaBug@piefed.social
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#7 · Quote Reply

Don't put the word anus after it then!

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irate944 piefed.social irate944@piefed.social
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Me: There's no way that's true

Me, after web searching: Huh...

Context: They have a betting game called "Jogo do bicho" (Animal game, direct translation). Number 24 corresponds to deer, which is "veado" in portuguese - which is very similar to"viado", which is a slur for gay people persons.

I still doubt these candles are popular though.

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The Picard Maneuver lemmy.world The_Picard_Maneuver@lemmy.world
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#9 · Quote Reply

Don't put the word anus after it then!

I was going to say, if Portuguese is like Spanish, it's "anus" without the tilde over the n, right?

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TrackinDaKraken lemmy.world DarrinBrunner@lemmy.world
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#10 · Quote Reply

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That's quite the leap. Must be a very well-known game, with a board that never changes.

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TrackinDaKraken lemmy.world DarrinBrunner@lemmy.world
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Me: There's no way that's true Me, after web searching: Huh... Context: They have a betting game called "Jogo do bicho" (Animal game, direct translation). Number 24 corresponds to deer, which is "veado" in portuguese - which is very similar to"viado", which is a slur for gay people persons. I still doubt these candles are popular though.

They're popular enough for them to have been mass-produced, as opposed to, say, just writing the text on the cake with frosting.

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potatoguy mbin.potato-guy.space potatoguy@mbin.potato-guy.space
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#12 · Quote Reply

Can confirm, I was gay that year.

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rockerface🇺🇦 lemmy.cafe rockerface@lemmy.cafe
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Oh deer

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Akasazh lemmy.world Akasazh@lemmy.world
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#14 · (edited) Quote Reply

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A friend of mine one introduced his girlfriend to a Colombian friend. He was quite surprised.

He name was Marieke, he heard maricon (pronounced quite similar) that's a Latin slur for gay too.

Thanks for filling in the etymology!

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hperrin lemmy.ca hperrin@lemmy.ca
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I don’t know if it’s the same in Portuguese, but in Spanish, “anos” (without the ñ) means anuses. So… 23 + 1 anuses. Sounds pretty gay.

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🇰 🌀 🇱 🇦 🇳 🇦 🇰 🇮 pawb.social Kolanaki@pawb.social
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#16 · (edited) Quote Reply

Why is 24 gay? 🤨

And isn't "anos" actually "anus?" Años is "years old." If it's different in Portugese, that is one hell of a coincidence. lol

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Gork sopuli.xyz Gork@sopuli.xyz
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#17 · Quote Reply

Straight men have a 23+1 hr schedule every day. The extra hour is for secret gay time.

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Leon pawb.social Dojan@pawb.social
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#18 · Quote Reply

But they’re happy with an anos on their cake.

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AeronMelon lemmy.world aeronmelon@lemmy.world
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I am ashamed to be a member of a race that cannot have a floor 13 in a building in some countries, or a floor 4 (or floor with the number 4) in others just because of an outdated superstition.

But this somehow feels even dumber.

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WalleyeWarrior midwest.social WalleyeWarrior@midwest.social
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That's quite the leap. Must be a very well-known game, with a board that never changes.

I have Salvadorian in-laws that play a similar looking game called "loteria" which is similar to bingo and played at family gatherings. I assume most Central/South American countries have a similar game.

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kryptonianCodeMonkey lemmy.world kryptonianCodeMonkey@lemmy.world
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#21 · (edited) Quote Reply

If they are worried about seeming gay, why are they decorating their cake with 23+1 sparkly magic Spanish anuses? Seems preeeetty gay....

For those confused, in Portuguese (which they speak in Brazil), "ano" is year. But in Spanish "año" is year, and "ano" is anus. Also the blue seems speckled or glittery (unclear in the picture) and it says in the corner that it has a magic wick.

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Catoblepas piefed.blahaj.zone Catoblepas@piefed.blahaj.zone
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#22 · Quote Reply

That's quite the leap. Must be a very well-known game, with a board that never changes.

It’s an incredibly culturally impactful game, including in slang: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jogo_do_bicho#Cultural_impact

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T4V0 lemmy.pt T4V0@lemmy.pt
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#23 · (edited) Quote Reply

Why is 24 gay? 🤨 And isn't "anos" actually "anus?" Años is "years old." If it's different in Portugese, that is one hell of a coincidence. lol

Anos in portuguese means years, while ânus means anus. Portuguese doesn't have a tilde over the n, only vowels can have accents in portuguese.

And 24 has a gay connotation due a false homonym in a Brazilian illegal betting game named "bicho" (animal), the number 24 belongs to a "veado" (deer), which sounds like "viado".

The word "viado" is a gay slur originating from the word "transviado" (literally means straying from a path), and the original word isn't as popular, though.

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Hudell lemmy.dbzer0.com Hudell@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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#24 · Quote Reply

Me: There's no way that's true Me, after web searching: Huh... Context: They have a betting game called "Jogo do bicho" (Animal game, direct translation). Number 24 corresponds to deer, which is "veado" in portuguese - which is very similar to"viado", which is a slur for gay people persons. I still doubt these candles are popular though.

That's not the reason though. 24 (vinte e quatro) is the gay number because it sounds like "vim de quatro" which means something like "I came on all 4s"

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Hudell lemmy.dbzer0.com Hudell@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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#25 · Quote Reply

Why is 24 gay? 🤨 And isn't "anos" actually "anus?" Años is "years old." If it's different in Portugese, that is one hell of a coincidence. lol

24 is "vinte e quatro" and it sounds similar to "vim de quatro" which can be interpreted as "I came on all 4s"

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🇰 🌀 🇱 🇦 🇳 🇦 🇰 🇮 pawb.social Kolanaki@pawb.social
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24 is "vinte e quatro" and it sounds similar to "vim de quatro" which can be interpreted as "I came on all 4s"

That sounds hot.

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Lvxferre [he/him] mander.xyz lvxferre@mander.xyz
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#27 · Quote Reply

Me: There's no way that's true Me, after web searching: Huh... Context: They have a betting game called "Jogo do bicho" (Animal game, direct translation). Number 24 corresponds to deer, which is "veado" in portuguese - which is very similar to"viado", which is a slur for gay people persons. I still doubt these candles are popular though.
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ILikeBoobies lemmy.ca ILikeBoobies@lemmy.ca
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#28 · Quote Reply

I'm just jealous 23+1 year old men get their birthday celebrated there.

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idiomaddict lemmy.world idiomaddict@lemmy.world
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#29 · Quote Reply

I was going to say, if Portuguese is like Spanish, it's "anus" without the tilde over the n, right?

Portuguese doesn’t really have a tilde, but that’s what the h following an n (or an L) is there to indicate

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irate944 piefed.social irate944@piefed.social
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#30 · Quote Reply

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Thanks for the explanation mate, that makes a lot more sense.

I'm portuguese and I always thought that veado was the word, just that "e" was "stressed" to sound like "i". I didn't know until today that there were actually two words

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5715 feddit.org 5715@feddit.org
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#31 · Quote Reply

Is gay porn considered horror for heteros?

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marcos lemmy.world marcos@lemmy.world
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#32 · (edited) Quote Reply

Me: There's no way that's true Me, after web searching: Huh... Context: They have a betting game called "Jogo do bicho" (Animal game, direct translation). Number 24 corresponds to deer, which is "veado" in portuguese - which is very similar to"viado", which is a slur for gay people persons. I still doubt these candles are popular though.

It's a very popular joke. I have no idea how many people take it seriously, since those would probably not say they do.

I imagine most people that buy a candle like that do it for somebody else's birthday to imply the other person is gay.

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Catoblepas piefed.blahaj.zone Catoblepas@piefed.blahaj.zone
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#33 · Quote Reply

If they are worried about seeming gay, why are they decorating their cake with 23+1 sparkly magic Spanish anuses? Seems preeeetty gay.... For those confused, in Portuguese (which they speak in Brazil), "ano" is year. But in Spanish "año" is year, and "ano" is anus. Also the blue seems speckled or glittery (unclear in the picture) and it says in the corner that it has a magic wick.

Doesn’t that say magico, not mango?

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ramenshaman lemmy.world ramenshaman@lemmy.world
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#34 · Quote Reply

TIL my birthday is gay

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kryptonianCodeMonkey lemmy.world kryptonianCodeMonkey@lemmy.world
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#35 · (edited) Quote Reply

Doesn’t that say magico, not mango?

You're right. I didnt zoom in enough apparently. I've corrected my mistake. Says "com pavio magico", meaning "with magic wick". Not helping the case honestly.

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ascend lemmy.radio ascend@lemmy.radio
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#36 · Quote Reply

They're popular enough for them to have been mass-produced, as opposed to, say, just writing the text on the cake with frosting.

Kind of funny someone is so self conscious about looking "weak" or whatever has a birthday cake with candles

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someguy3 lemmy.world someguy3@lemmy.world
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#37 · Quote Reply

That's a lot of candle for something that's going to burn for less than a minute.

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hraegsvelmir ani.social hraegsvelmir@ani.social
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#38 · (edited) Quote Reply

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It's only the same if you ignore Portuguese pronunciation, though, this is still some rightwing snowflake shit. Veado and viado will only sound the same if you speak some ignorant, backwater version of Brazilian Portuguese, so I'm not sure what you're talking about.

Viado e veado não soam igual, mano, esse é coisa de homens frágeis, eu não sei de que você tá falando. Deixe essa porra pros Bolsonaristas. Nem os tugas falam assim.

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hraegsvelmir ani.social hraegsvelmir@ani.social
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#39 · Quote Reply

A friend of mine one introduced his girlfriend to a Colombian friend. He was quite surprised. He name was Marieke, he heard maricon (pronounced quite similar) that's a Latin slur for gay too. Thanks for filling in the etymology!

At best, it sounds vaguely like marica, which is another common slur, but just like my reply ti some dumbass claiming veado and viado are the same in Portuguese, you would have to have some sort of developmental disorder to think Marieke and marica sound the same, or completely ignore Spanish orthography.

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Ajen sh.itjust.works Ajen@sh.itjust.works
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#40 · (edited) Quote Reply

If they are worried about seeming gay, why are they decorating their cake with 23+1 sparkly magic Spanish anuses? Seems preeeetty gay.... For those confused, in Portuguese (which they speak in Brazil), "ano" is year. But in Spanish "año" is year, and "ano" is anus. Also the blue seems speckled or glittery (unclear in the picture) and it says in the corner that it has a magic wick.

Seems like a joke.

(in Portuguese) what kind of cake do you want for your birthday?

IDGAF just don't write "24" on it

ok.... Happy birthday, enjoy your 23+1 anuses, you [insert homophobic slur here]

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Čauky Mňauky lemmy.zip PartyAt15thAndSummit@lemmy.zip
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#41 · Quote Reply

It’s an incredibly culturally impactful game, including in slang: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jogo_do_bicho#Cultural_impact

Oh. Thanks. I never knew any of this. Also, TIL that the last name of one of my favorite authors, Paulo Coelho, means "rabbit."

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Blum0108 lemmy.world Blum0108@lemmy.world
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#42 · Quote Reply

TIL my birthday is gay

Every birthday can be gay if you're gay enough

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gatinho da piscina lemmy.eco.br obbeel@lemmy.eco.br
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#43 · Quote Reply

Oh yes, my sexuality is protected 🫦

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gatinho da piscina lemmy.eco.br obbeel@lemmy.eco.br
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#44 · Quote Reply

It's only the same if you ignore Portuguese pronunciation, though, this is still some rightwing snowflake shit. Veado and viado will only sound the same if you speak some ignorant, backwater version of Brazilian Portuguese, so I'm not sure what you're talking about. Viado e veado não soam igual, mano, esse é coisa de homens frágeis, eu não sei de que você tá falando. Deixe essa porra pros Bolso...

Viado es veado. Fuck this

Even if it sounded different it wouldn't make a difference, because language is flexible and undefined, or are we going to take classes on how to talk "e" or "i" as well? I'm certain we need more of those 🙄

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gatinho da piscina lemmy.eco.br obbeel@lemmy.eco.br
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#45 · Quote Reply

Kind of funny someone is so self conscious about looking "weak" or whatever has a birthday cake with candles

Yes. He is a respected male now. He is 23+1, watch out! No one will mess with him as he sexuality is assured (sorry if I'm being too intense about this, I'm brazilian. I've noticed it doesn't make sense to people of other countries in the other commentary)

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gatinho da piscina lemmy.eco.br obbeel@lemmy.eco.br
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#46 · Quote Reply

That's not the reason though. 24 (vinte e quatro) is the gay number because it sounds like "vim de quatro" which means something like "I came on all 4s"

True

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Sculptor9157 sh.itjust.works Sculptor9157@sh.itjust.works
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#47 · Quote Reply

That's a lot of candle for something that's going to burn for less than a minute.

That's what she said?

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hayvan piefed.world hayvan@piefed.world
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#48 · Quote Reply

Me: There's no way that's true Me, after web searching: Huh... Context: They have a betting game called "Jogo do bicho" (Animal game, direct translation). Number 24 corresponds to deer, which is "veado" in portuguese - which is very similar to"viado", which is a slur for gay people persons. I still doubt these candles are popular though.

It's probably more of a joke.

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Imgonnatrythis sh.itjust.works Imgonnatrythis@sh.itjust.works
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#49 · Quote Reply

I dunno. That one looks a little phallic, could still be a little gay. Why not do 22+2 just to be completely safe? This isn't something you want to mess around with.

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yermaw sh.itjust.works yermaw@sh.itjust.works
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#50 · Quote Reply

That's what she said?

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socsa piefed.social socsa@piefed.social
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#51 · Quote Reply

That's pretty gay

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