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n7gifmdn lemmy.ca n7gifmdn@lemmy.ca
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screen shot of what looks like TikTok with what appears like a SMS conversation with first message "tits or ass" reply message "actually I prefer personality" over what looks like the top of a girl's head with pink hair overlaid with white text "this is actually incredibly ableist sof of us have personality disorders you need to lear to appreciate my tiddies"
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KarlHungus42 lemmy.world KarlHungus42@lemmy.world
Joined: 2025-03-31
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Shouldn’t the creator of this meme have asked, “Tids or ass”?

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man_wtfhappenedtoyou lemmy.world man_wtfhappenedtoyou@lemmy.world
Joined: 2025-10-27
#3 · Quote Reply

Interesting thought process.

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Ghostie lemmy.zip Ghostie@lemmy.zip
Joined: 2025-12-16
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BillyClark piefed.social BillyClark@piefed.social
Joined: 2026-01-21
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I know it's all a joke, but people do sometimes try to judge people's preferences of what they find sexually attractive based on something like political correctness. Which is just plain stupid. It's something you're not consciously in control of.

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kryptonianCodeMonkey lemmy.world kryptonianCodeMonkey@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-13
#6 · (edited) Quote Reply

I know it's all a joke, but people do sometimes try to judge people's preferences of what they find sexually attractive based on something like political correctness. Which is just plain stupid. It's something you're not consciously in control of.

There's a reason the whole "I hope this doesn't awaken something in me," joke exists. You don't decide what you find attractive. You discover it. There's no choice in the matter.

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xxce2AAb feddit.dk xxce2AAb@feddit.dk
Joined: 2025-07-11
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They are not mutually exclusive, I assure you.

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Grail multiverse.soulism.net Grail@multiverse.soulism.net
Joined: 2026-01-14
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I know it's all a joke, but people do sometimes try to judge people's preferences of what they find sexually attractive based on something like political correctness. Which is just plain stupid. It's something you're not consciously in control of.

This may be a hot take but if someone's attracted to children I don't think that's very politically correct and I think they should go to therapy to learn how to suppress that attraction.

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nialv7 lemmy.world nialv7@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-02-27
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There's a reason the whole "I hope this doesn't awaken something in me," joke exists. You don't decide what you find attractive. You discover it. There's no choice in the matter.

Well yeah but it is your choice whether to follow that desire. Like I really want to empty a bottle of Nutella into my mouth, but I am not actually going to do it.

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gibmiser lemmy.world gibmiser@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-02
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There's a reason the whole "I hope this doesn't awaken something in me," joke exists. You don't decide what you find attractive. You discover it. There's no choice in the matter.

Pedophiles have entered the chat

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Virtvirt588 lemmy.world Virtvirt588@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-05
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This may be a hot take but if someone's attracted to children I don't think that's very politically correct and I think they should go to therapy to learn how to suppress that attraction.

How is that a hot take? Pedophilia isn't related to politics at all, its a mental disorder. It doesn't take opinion to judge its "correctness" as it is factually incorrect; as stated by DSM5 and other papers.

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Obi sopuli.xyz Obi@sopuli.xyz
Joined: 2023-06-01
#12 · Quote Reply

Well yeah but it is your choice whether to follow that desire. Like I really want to empty a bottle of Nutella into my mouth, but I am not actually going to do it.

Where do they sell Nutella in bottles??

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Lushed_Lungfish lemmy.ca Lushed_Lungfish@lemmy.ca
Joined: 2025-02-14
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Birds or donkeys?

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Evil Kitty europe.pub Una@europe.pub
Joined: 2025-04-11
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I prefer liver

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okwhateverdude lemmy.world okwhateverdude@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-08-01
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Well yeah but it is your choice whether to follow that desire. Like I really want to empty a bottle of Nutella into my mouth, but I am not actually going to do it.

Well not with that loser attitude. Man up and tell the beetus to get thee behind me. Take a silicone spatula with you so you can really get into the corners.

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Captain Aggravated sh.itjust.works captain_aggravated@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2023-06-20
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In this economy?

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nialv7 lemmy.world nialv7@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-02-27
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Where do they sell Nutella in bottles??

i meant jar. brain fart.

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BillyClark piefed.social BillyClark@piefed.social
Joined: 2026-01-21
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This may be a hot take but if someone's attracted to children I don't think that's very politically correct and I think they should go to therapy to learn how to suppress that attraction.

It's been my personal experience that sexual attraction is a separate thing from acting on it. Like, I can find my friend's wife attractive, yet somehow I don't assault her or pressure her to have sex with me. Even if I found myself in a situation where we were alone and she was unable to resist me.

Even if she took some crazy aphrodisiac and wanted me, but I knew she wasn't really in control of herself, nothing would happen with me because I know it's wrong and I have self control. I can say for sure because I've been in a similar situation to that, but it was a woman who was desperate to control her sex addiction.

But I'm not a pedophile, maybe it's different for them.

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rockerface🇺🇦 lemmy.cafe rockerface@lemmy.cafe
Joined: 2025-06-29
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Shallan Davar moment

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itsBlorpinTime feddit.online itsBlorpinTime@feddit.online
Joined: 2026-02-20
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I know it's all a joke, but people do sometimes try to judge people's preferences of what they find sexually attractive based on something like political correctness. Which is just plain stupid. It's something you're not consciously in control of.

You may be one of the hottest porn stars, but if you push MAGA trash down my throat, I'll see you as one of the ugliest ones.

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kryptonianCodeMonkey lemmy.world kryptonianCodeMonkey@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-13
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Well yeah but it is your choice whether to follow that desire. Like I really want to empty a bottle of Nutella into my mouth, but I am not actually going to do it.

Of course you do. Someone can be attracted to unhealthy things and have to deal with that too. Like scat for example. They can can even be attracted to blatantly dangerous or immoral things, like necrophilia or pedophila. They should seek counseling to make sure they can control those urges.

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kryptonianCodeMonkey lemmy.world kryptonianCodeMonkey@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-13
#22 · (edited) Quote Reply

Pedophiles have entered the chat

That goes for pedophilia too. They don't choose it. Doesn't mean it should be acted upon when your attraction is inherently dangerous or immoral. They should seek counseling to try to prevent acting out their urges. Wouldn't wish that on anyone.

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n7gifmdn lemmy.ca n7gifmdn@lemmy.ca
Joined: 2022-12-10
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I know it's all a joke, but people do sometimes try to judge people's preferences of what they find sexually attractive based on something like political correctness. Which is just plain stupid. It's something you're not consciously in control of.

like the whole you're a bigot because you don't want to date a woman who has a penis thing?

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teslekova sh.itjust.works teslekova@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2026-01-09
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It's been my personal experience that sexual attraction is a separate thing from acting on it. Like, I can find my friend's wife attractive, yet somehow I don't assault her or pressure her to have sex with me. Even if I found myself in a situation where we were alone and she was unable to resist me. Even if she took some crazy aphrodisiac and wanted me, but I knew she wasn't really in control o...

Rape is a choice by the rapist, news at 11.

I am not making fun of you, btw, that is something basic that lots of people don't get.

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SharkAttak kbin.melroy.org SharkAttak@kbin.melroy.org
Joined: 2024-09-23
#25 · Quote Reply

Okay but, do you have at least one of those three?

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WorldsDumbestMan lemmy.today WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today
Joined: 2024-12-05
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I know it's all a joke, but people do sometimes try to judge people's preferences of what they find sexually attractive based on something like political correctness. Which is just plain stupid. It's something you're not consciously in control of.

I'm not dating a MAGA. You are devil junior if you are MAGA.

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WorldsDumbestMan lemmy.today WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today
Joined: 2024-12-05
#27 · Quote Reply

This may be a hot take but if someone's attracted to children I don't think that's very politically correct and I think they should go to therapy to learn how to suppress that attraction.

For once, you are right about something.

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Wildmimic anarchist.nexus Wildmimic@anarchist.nexus
Joined: 2025-09-05
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That goes for pedophilia too. They don't choose it. Doesn't mean it should be acted upon when your attraction is inherently dangerous or immoral. They should seek counseling to try to prevent acting out their urges. Wouldn't wish that on anyone.

I have to say i am very proud of all of you. Most of the time if pedophilia comes up, the common reaction is rage and vigilantism. Seeing so many of you saying that pedophiles didn't choose to be this way and that they need therapy is kinda wholesome compared to the discussions i already had to endure.

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kryptonianCodeMonkey lemmy.world kryptonianCodeMonkey@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-13
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I have to say i am very proud of all of you. Most of the time if pedophilia comes up, the common reaction is rage and vigilantism. Seeing so many of you saying that pedophiles didn't choose to be this way and that they need therapy is kinda wholesome compared to the discussions i already had to endure.

There's a very important distinction between a pedophile and a child abuser. The former is an affliction, the latter is a choice.

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Wildmimic anarchist.nexus Wildmimic@anarchist.nexus
Joined: 2025-09-05
#30 · Quote Reply

There's a very important distinction between a pedophile and a child abuser. The former is an affliction, the latter is a choice.

I fully agree, but there are so many people out there conflating the two terms. Sexual abuse of children (and women) often has no connection to pedophilia at all - it's awful people getting off on the power imbalance.

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flubba86 lemmy.world flubba86@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-12
#31 · Quote Reply

Shallan Davar moment

She has huge tracts of personalities.

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Midnight Wolf lemmy.world wreckedcarzz@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-08-23
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Knots or barbs?

Trick question, some of us have both 😏

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