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Proposed instance defederation for multiverse.soulism.net - an instance administrated by Grail aka Dronerights aka Hardlightcereal aka Exocrinous aka Drag
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rivvvver lemmy.dbzer0.com rivvvver@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2023-08-18
#202 · (edited)

no, it's in some community rules

so, ban Them from those communities? why are we discussing a defederation from this instance when one user broke some community rule?

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rivvvver lemmy.dbzer0.com rivvvver@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2023-08-18
#203 ·

This ain't the supreme court. If I see a loophole, I close the loophole. For a defederation to be effective it will be necessary to ban alts as well.

ok fair enough ig

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Grail multiverse.soulism.net Grail@multiverse.soulism.net
Joined: 2026-01-14
#204 · (edited)

for the record, i found this interaction, and this seems to be a largely correct description. one comment was kinda accelerationist-y and they also argued trump now was no worse than what the dems wouldve done (for ppl on food stamps). unfortunately lemmys ui is kinda ass so very long threads become impossible to read tho, so i could only read a large part of it. they seemed very upset at Ur us...

Yes, capitalised U please and thank you very much.

I can understand why someone would be upset at My flippancy with the word conservative. For My part I was frustrated at being asked a question whose premises I fundamentally disagreed with. I couldn't come up with any honest answer to the question "when is conservatism acceptable" in that context, where it was obviously being loaded with meaning to imply that 1: the Dems are conservatives and 2: I am materially supporting conservative ideology by saying to vote for them. The question was laden with so much bullshit, I couldn't find any way to pick an honest nugget out of the shit with which to have a good faith conversation. So I flipped the script and threw the bullshit pile in the compost by going on a wild tangent about Indigenous conservatism, which ostensibly answered the question but gave the other person nothing that they wanted.

That's My attitude on these sorts of things - if you won't put in a basic level of good faith to ask Me questions that I can honestly answer, I'm not gonna answer those questions in good faith. There was no way for Me to answer that question with both good faith and honesty. I had to pick one. I chose honesty over good faith. I got frustrated and went "random bullshit go" over the alternative.

TL;DR: Ask stupid questions, get stupid answers

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rivvvver lemmy.dbzer0.com rivvvver@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2023-08-18
#205 · (edited)

This ain't the supreme court. If I see a loophole, I close the loophole. For a defederation to be effective it will be necessary to ban alts as well.

oh right, could u update the post to reflect this change? thanks

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db0 Moderator db0@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2023-06-09
#206 · (edited)

Hm, while this vote is technically passing, I have a concern about quorum. Do we really want to enforce a defederation with only 7 votes?

Edit : wait lemme check the bot didn't die instead

Edit2: nevermind the bot bugged out

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Grail multiverse.soulism.net Grail@multiverse.soulism.net
Joined: 2026-01-14
#207 ·

Hm, while this vote is technically passing, I have a concern about quorum. Do we really want to enforce a defederation with only 7 votes? Edit : wait lemme check the bot didn't die instead Edit2: nevermind the bot bugged out

Also, dbzer0 should probably be concerned by Flatworm changing the proposal after several days of voting, which they said they were gonna do in this comment

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balsoft lemmy.ml balsoft@lemmy.ml
Joined: 2024-06-10
#208 ·

As an outsider, I find it weird that this instance warrants defederation when there's a lot of similar content/stances/trolls on mainstream "liberal" instances like lemmy.world, piefed.world etc. IMO community-wide bans would be more appropriate

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db0 Moderator db0@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2023-06-09
#209 ·

Also, dbzer0 should probably be concerned by Flatworm changing the proposal after several days of voting, which they said they were gonna do in this comment

Ah unruffled said, this ain't the supreme court. We don't fall for loophole. If people think they should allow your alts they can bring it up

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/0 Bot Moderator div0@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2023-07-01
#210 ·

As an outsider, I find it weird that this instance warrants defederation when there's a lot of similar content/stances/trolls on mainstream "liberal" instances like lemmy.world, piefed.world etc. IMO community-wide bans would be more appropriate

Landlubber: a drowning person with a trihat

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/0 Bot Moderator div0@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2023-07-01
#211 ·

Hm, while this vote is technically passing, I have a concern about quorum. Do we really want to enforce a defederation with only 7 votes? Edit : wait lemme check the bot didn't die instead Edit2: nevermind the bot bugged out

First Mate: a pirate ship's steering wheel, orangered color

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/0 Bot Moderator div0@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2023-07-01
#212 ·

This is sort of unrelated, but I really hate how the world "electoralism" gets thrown around lately, when most of the accusations are pretty far off the mark, and seem to come back around as being generally anti-democracy and edgy. I think a lot of people here genuinely do not understand the concept. It's particularly upsetting when it's being used as a primary argument in favor of defederation...

Landlubber: a drowning person with a trihat

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/0 Bot Moderator div0@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2023-07-01
#213 ·

I think this vote is kinda weird, because there's nothing in the actual proposal about banning Me as a user, it's all about the instance. So I would still be able to post to dbzer0 from My .world account, and I wouldn't be breaking any rules. If this vote passes, it will only affect the other users on MULTIVERSE. So a bunch of people who are new to the fediverse don't see as much anarchist cont...

Landlubber: a drowning person with a trihat

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/0 Bot Moderator div0@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2023-07-01
#214 ·

I want to just state, They do not argue in good faith, They're a known bad actor. I had an interaction with Them and "someone" I believe was on of Their alts recently that turned into election blaming and straw man arguments. From what I have read and seen on here about Them, They're bad faith in Their actions.

Landlubber: a drowning person with a trihat

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/0 Bot Moderator div0@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2023-07-01
#215 ·

Defederate, no question.

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/0 Bot Moderator div0@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2023-07-01
#216 ·

The case against defederation Grail is neurodivergent (trans and NPD afaik), so we should be willing to make some accommodations for Their behaviour I don't necessarily agree with this stance. Being neurodivergent is not an excuse to 1) be a raging asshole, and 2) flippantly throw baseless accusations around. To quote a podcaster I enjoy: "Mental health isn't your fault, but it is your responsi...

GNU: an icon of a wildebeest, in orange-red, black and white colors

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/0 Bot Moderator div0@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2023-07-01
#217 ·

The major problem with lemmy is all the obnoxiously irritating people driving away the relatively ordinary ones.

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/0 Bot Moderator div0@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2023-07-01
#218 ·

Grail is neurodivergent (trans and NPD afaik), so we should be willing to make some accommodations for Their behaviour .... Should we? I'm sorry, but I don't care what or how you are. If you are a bald black lesbian rocker (hello Skin, how YOU doing) that's fine, don't care. If you are nice, you're nice. If you're an asshole, I won't tolerate you and I won't care if you're trans or neurodiverge...

Landlubber: a drowning person with a trihat

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/0 Bot Moderator div0@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2023-07-01
#219 ·

While this thread is very dramatic 🍿 and I'm not sure I have / should have a voice in this, I'm concerned there may be other users on the instance (either now or in the future) that may be caught up in defederation. I'll abstain since I'm new and probably don't get a vote anyway, but I do think we should consider the effects on other users.

GNU: an icon of a wildebeest, in orange-red, black and white colors

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/0 Bot Moderator div0@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2023-07-01
#220 ·

Grail is neurodivergent (trans and NPD afaik), so we should be willing to make some accommodations for Their behaviour It is an insult to every neurodivergent person who has their shit together, if you tolerate this sort of behavior just because they are “different”. No tolerance for the intolerant. Defederate. Flatwork7591: thank you very much for this very informative post and giving us the p...

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/0 Bot Moderator div0@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2023-07-01
#221 ·

If someone is annoying/frustrating and trolling you, then they are also causing those same disturbances to others such as your users. It is why I ban trolls that are negatively affecting others and do not align with dbzer0. Granted, most of my bans are bots. Grail was annoying for sure and I stopped replying to this user because I didn't want to get banned after seeing others mixing up the capi...

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/0 Bot Moderator div0@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2023-07-01
#222 ·

I blocked that whole instance shortly after the "Banned for Nuttin'" post in YPTB last week. defederating from anarchist comms because of not liking the content, listing the reason as "authoritarianism", then complaining when that mod issues a reciprocal ban is some pretty shitty behavior. but then, so is the constant badjacketing and insistence that only one kind of anarchism is the "right" on...

Landlubber: a drowning person with a trihat

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/0 Bot Moderator div0@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2023-07-01
#223 ·

Grail is nowhere near as annoying as Drag imho. However generally I really dislike sockjacketing people without solid evidence, like this. OTOH I do understand that trolls need to be dealt with summarily so avoid more damage to the communities. I just feel we don't need to try to connect them to previous trolls to do so. I'm going to abstain from this one as I am not particularly bothered either way.

First Mate: a pirate ship's steering wheel, orangered color

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/0 Bot Moderator div0@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2023-07-01
#224 ·

In reply to an earlier post

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/0 Bot Moderator div0@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2023-07-01
#225 ·

In reply to an earlier post

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/0 Bot Moderator div0@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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#226 ·

In reply to an earlier post

Jolly Roger: an icon of pirate jolly roger skull wearing a hat, in orange-red, black and white colors

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/0 Bot Moderator div0@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2023-07-01
#227 ·

In reply to an earlier post

GNU: an icon of a wildebeest, in orange-red, black and white colors

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/0 Bot Moderator div0@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2023-07-01
#228 ·

In reply to an earlier post

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/0 Bot Moderator div0@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2023-07-01
#229 ·

In reply to an earlier post

Jolly Roger: an icon of pirate jolly roger skull wearing a hat, in orange-red, black and white colors

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/0 Bot Moderator div0@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2023-07-01
#230 ·

In reply to an earlier post

GNU: an icon of a wildebeest, in orange-red, black and white colors

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/0 Bot Moderator div0@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2023-07-01
#231 ·

In reply to an earlier post

GNU: an icon of a wildebeest, in orange-red, black and white colors

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/0 Bot Moderator div0@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2023-07-01
#232 ·

In reply to an earlier post

GNU: an icon of a wildebeest, in orange-red, black and white colors

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/0 Bot Moderator div0@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2023-07-01
#233 ·

In reply to an earlier post

Jolly Roger: an icon of pirate jolly roger skull wearing a hat, in orange-red, black and white colors

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/0 Bot Moderator div0@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2023-07-01
#234 ·

In reply to an earlier post

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/0 Bot Moderator div0@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2023-07-01
#235 ·

In reply to an earlier post

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/0 Bot Moderator div0@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2023-07-01
#236 ·

In reply to an earlier post

Landlubber: a drowning person with a trihat

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/0 Bot Moderator div0@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2023-07-01
#237 ·

In reply to an earlier post

Jolly Roger: an icon of pirate jolly roger skull wearing a hat, in orange-red, black and white colors

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/0 Bot Moderator div0@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2023-07-01
#238 ·

In reply to an earlier post

Landlubber: a drowning person with a trihat

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/0 Bot Moderator div0@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2023-07-01
#239 ·

In reply to an earlier post

Landlubber: a drowning person with a trihat

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Unruffled [they/them] lemmy.dbzer0.com Flatworm7591@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2023-06-20
#240 ·

oh right, could u update the post to reflect this change? thanks

Done 👍

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Unruffled [they/them] lemmy.dbzer0.com Flatworm7591@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2023-06-20
#241 ·

Hm, while this vote is technically passing, I have a concern about quorum. Do we really want to enforce a defederation with only 7 votes? Edit : wait lemme check the bot didn't die instead Edit2: nevermind the bot bugged out

Good pickup, dbo. The numbers look a lot more solid now.

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Unruffled [they/them] lemmy.dbzer0.com Flatworm7591@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2023-06-20
#242 ·

so, ban Them from those communities? why are we discussing a defederation from this instance when one user broke some community rule?

Because the user is also the admin of the instance, and it's likely a lot of the users are just alts.

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Unruffled [they/them] lemmy.dbzer0.com Flatworm7591@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2023-06-20
#243 · (edited)

Also, dbzer0 should probably be concerned by Flatworm changing the proposal after several days of voting, which they said they were gonna do in this comment

It's not misgendering to use impersonal pronouns in a sentence, Grail. Db0 wasn't even referring to You.

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Grail multiverse.soulism.net Grail@multiverse.soulism.net
Joined: 2026-01-14
#244 ·

Ah unruffled said, this ain't the supreme court. We don't fall for loophole. If people think they should allow your alts they can bring it up

Whose alts?

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BeardededSquidward lemmy.blahaj.zone BeardededSquidward@lemmy.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2025-12-04
#245 ·

In reply to an earlier post

If I come at you pretending to be one thing, then show I'm not really that, I'm just trying to get a rise out of you, that's bad faith, period.

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rivvvver lemmy.dbzer0.com rivvvver@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2023-08-18
#246 ·

Because the user is also the admin of the instance, and it's likely a lot of the users are just alts.

it's likely a lot of the users are just alts.

please tell me this is more than conjecture.

is there at least one other user of that instance who is a known troll?

anything at all that suggests this is true, like an account "Grail2@multiverse.whatever.com"?

if not, then we might as well adopt the policy to defederate from any instance who has an admin that broke any community rule anywhere before, on the same basis.

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Mystic Mushroom [Ze/Zir] lemmy.dbzer0.com MysticMushroom1776@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2025-04-03
#247 · (edited)

Whose alts?

Yours idiot.

Edit: Wait I forgot, They can't see my comments because They blocked me from Their server... Oh well 🤷‍♀️

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Mystic Mushroom [Ze/Zir] lemmy.dbzer0.com MysticMushroom1776@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2025-04-03
#248 ·

As an outsider, I find it weird that this instance warrants defederation when there's a lot of similar content/stances/trolls on mainstream "liberal" instances like lemmy.world, piefed.world etc. IMO community-wide bans would be more appropriate

lemmy.world and piefed.world might be getting the chopping block in the near future. Go check out the drama in !yepowertrippinbastards@lemmy.dbzer0.com it's crazy.

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The D Quuuuuill slrpnk.net Quill7513@slrpnk.net
Joined: 2023-06-26
#249 ·

In reply to an earlier post

as is tradition in lefty and lefty adjacent spaces.

some of the time we have to take it on the chin and act more welcoming to newcomers.

others we have to dedicate some energy to explaining why and how we got like this, and that their complacency needs challenged.

personally, it seems like right now we have more on the threadiverse of the former and less of the latter

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Mystic Mushroom [Ze/Zir] lemmy.dbzer0.com MysticMushroom1776@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2025-04-03
#250 ·

In reply to an earlier post

Happy to see this vote succeed.

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BeardededSquidward lemmy.blahaj.zone BeardededSquidward@lemmy.blahaj.zone
Joined: 2025-12-04
#251 ·

In reply to an earlier post

Being an accelerationist to my understanding is to want to use capitalism to cause radical social and economic change. If I'm wrong, please tell me.

Fact of the matter:Never supported, voted for, or defended Trump. I have voted against him despite my deep dislike of neo-liberal ideology because it's not actively destructive like reactionary ideology. If saying "This is a shit situation we're in, I hope something good can come out of it" then many people are such for hoping for better. I'm staunchly anti-capitalist to the point I'm going to but heads with people who give apologies for pro-capitalist ideologies, organizations, or people.

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