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If she doesn't disclose up front that she's wearing makeup, that's sexual assault
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RampantParanoia2365 lemmy.world RampantParanoia2365@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-10-02
#202 · Quote Reply

Oh...yeah...that right pic is horrid. I'd be willing to take one for the team, though.

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RampantParanoia2365 lemmy.world RampantParanoia2365@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-10-02
#203 · Quote Reply

You're expressing your opinion just like Jeremy is in the post.

Did you just compare recognition of beauty to fucking rape? Do you have any clue how unhinged you sound?

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RampantParanoia2365 lemmy.world RampantParanoia2365@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-10-02
#204 · Quote Reply

The fact that just about everyone in this thread disagrees with you does not exactly reflect positively on your argument There were a lot of people who disagreed with me about 14 year olds being unable to consent to sex with adults, too. That doesn't make me wrong. Unasked for commentary on how a woman looks is unnecessary and presumptuous. Who gives a fuck what any individual thinks about how ...

No there weren't. I have no idea what you're referring to, but if it was on Lemmy you absolutely just made it up.

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MyVeryRealName lemmy.world MyVeryRealName@lemmy.world
Joined: 2026-02-23
#205 · Quote Reply

It’s what should be said when men offer their unwanted opinions about a woman’s looks.

And what about when women offer unwanted opinions about a man's looks?

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MyVeryRealName lemmy.world MyVeryRealName@lemmy.world
Joined: 2026-02-23
#206 · Quote Reply

she’s wearing makeup on the right

Minimally, perhaps.

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Jankatarch lemmy.world Jankatarch@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-07-12
#207 · (edited) Quote Reply

Conservatives will show you two pictures of a conventionally attractive person looking conventionally attractive, and then caption it some bs like "the age of men has fallen."

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orioler25 lemmy.world orioler25@lemmy.world
Joined: 2025-10-19
#208 · Quote Reply

This is why I can't talk to most men for more than a minute.

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queermunist she/her lemmy.ml queermunist@lemmy.ml
Joined: 2023-07-10
#209 · Quote Reply

Another example of "Everyone is twelve now."

Yeah kiddo, I know you're surprised women look different when we put on makeup. You're twelve!

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Tollana1234567 lemmy.today Tollana1234567@lemmy.today
Joined: 2025-06-04
#210 · Quote Reply

calling the woman a female is a telltale sign its an incel.

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answersplease77 lemmy.world answersplease77@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-01
#211 · (edited) Quote Reply

You’re just paying to raise the next generation of your trafficked women.

i meet 40+ . I cant remember the last time i talked to someone younger.

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Whirling_Cloudburst lemmy.world Whirling_Cloudburst@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-10-06
#212 · Quote Reply

Attractiveness is subjective.

This is true. Attractiveeness is also mathematical.
Symmetry and having average facial structures also play a role too.

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answersplease77 lemmy.world answersplease77@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-01
#213 · Quote Reply

I’m not that rich, and I’m someone who yearly spends 10x that amount on charity $150,000 a year for charity but not rich. Does the $ mean Taiwanese dollars or something?

You don't have to be rich to be generous. I'm literally the poorest in my family and all people around me.
I've dealt with billionares all my life. they are the ugliest people on earth. they either hoard money or exploit people with it. what do you want me to do knowing i have no more than 30 yrs at best left here. no one in my family needs it. I dont need more than $200k on myself a year max.

I dont know how old you are, but I hope you understand.

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Almacca aussie.zone Almacca@aussie.zone
Joined: 2025-02-06
#214 · Quote Reply

incels need to be stopped

Well, it's not like they're reproducing. Just give it a few years.

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Almacca aussie.zone Almacca@aussie.zone
Joined: 2025-02-06
#215 · Quote Reply

sadly kinda happened to me :( i paid a "model" $15k to travel and see me for few days+tickets+hotel#s+gifts++ all in her bank already. first day I was shocked when she cleaned her face. I kept looking and could not fuckin believe it was the same person had I not seen her wash her face in front of me.. the 2nd day I left. and off course i kept it in and never reported it to the police Edit: The ...

It's not the last sentence that's getting you the downvotes, champ.

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Almacca aussie.zone Almacca@aussie.zone
Joined: 2025-02-06
#216 · Quote Reply

Lol, I'm not disavowing feminism. Your comments won't change the mind of anyone who already had an egalitarian mindset - but in aggregate lots of comments like yours push away people on the fence, and entrench those who are already in a bad place. If a woman made an equivalent comment about the before and after shots of a guy getting in shape or something it would rightfully not draw any ire. J...

Who said anything about changing anyone's minds? She's merely pointing out that blunderworld's comment is still objectifying women. The up/downvote ratio says a lot about the Lemmy crowd that they should be ashamed of.

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iuminou lemmy.dbzer0.com thethunderwolf@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2025-09-12
#217 · Quote Reply

Well, it's not like they're reproducing. Just give it a few years.

sadly it wont work like that

they wont have children and raise incels, but tw*tter will still raise incels from others' children

incelism is a social-media-borne disease to which people raised to be bigots are susceptible

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Almacca aussie.zone Almacca@aussie.zone
Joined: 2025-02-06
#218 · Quote Reply

sadly it wont work like that they wont have children and raise incels, but tw*tter will still raise incels from others' children incelism is a social-media-borne disease to which people raised to be bigots are susceptible

Sadly, you're right. They reproduce asexually, like slime molds, and nuns.

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ulterno programming.dev ulterno@programming.dev
Joined: 2024-11-12
#219 · Quote Reply

So you can't tell she's wearing a makeup?

The post seems like a retort to something some woman might have posted, saying something like, "If he doesn't tell you he's poor, when hitting on you, that's sexual assault.". There are quite a few to and fro comments like this visible in those spaces.

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iuminou lemmy.dbzer0.com thethunderwolf@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2025-09-12
#220 · Quote Reply

Sadly, you're right. They reproduce asexually, like slime molds, and nuns.

imagining a tw*tter incel mitosis-ing

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iuminou lemmy.dbzer0.com thethunderwolf@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2025-09-12
#221 · Quote Reply

imagining a tw*tter incel mitosis-ing

or giving birth to a miniature clone of itself

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RaphaelSchmitz feddit.org RaphaelSchmitz@feddit.org
Joined: 2025-04-28
#222 · Quote Reply

People like you do more harm than good for the cause you're fighting for. You are a living caricature of what actual incels use to justify their rotten worldview.

She imitates the TV show with the same name.

Just commenting because I recently told her about the same - this was not a single blunder, this is how she is.

But once you recognize the username, you also realize there's the wisdom/balance missing that people usually get when becoming adults. She might be 80 for all I know, but I haven't seen a single comment that wouldn't fit for a teenager.

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answersplease77 lemmy.world answersplease77@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-07-01
#223 · Quote Reply

It's not the last sentence that's getting you the downvotes, champ.

people assume a lot of bad things without context. It's okay

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RaphaelSchmitz feddit.org RaphaelSchmitz@feddit.org
Joined: 2025-04-28
#224 · Quote Reply

Part of it is she's authentically smiling and joyful without the makeup instead of doing that forced neutral "Paris Hilton" kind of look with the make-up. Turns out when people are happy and in a good mood they're more attractive. Who knew?

It's almost liberating to realize that beauty is not the same as attractiveness.

Someone can look below average, but have a shining, friendly personality that makes them attractive as hell!

No matter the gender, either- I'm not a particularly handsome man, but I can tell you that sparking joy works.

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baines lemmy.cafe baines@lemmy.cafe
Joined: 2024-10-26
#225 · Quote Reply

Minimally, perhaps.

for sure foundation, her skin tone is super even

possibly eye liner and lip liner based on color

the image quality is meh so it is also possibly just compression artifacts

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Echo Dot feddit.uk echodot@feddit.uk
Joined: 2023-07-26
#226 · Quote Reply

Damn I hate it when I get seduced by women wearing makeup, it's the worst thing ever, I hope it doesn't happen this weekend.

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Echo Dot feddit.uk echodot@feddit.uk
Joined: 2023-07-26
#227 · Quote Reply

Another example of "Everyone is twelve now." Yeah kiddo, I know you're surprised women look different when we put on makeup. You're twelve!

I wonder if he still feels deceived by peekaboo

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Axolotl feddit.it Axolotl_cpp@feddit.it
Joined: 2025-10-10
#228 · Quote Reply

Did not know Maralago face was a thing, but I know exactly what you mean. My (ultra-MAGA) father won't shut up about how "drop dead gorgeous" Melania Trump is....but when i look at her, she looks like she's made of plastic. Not to necessarily knock the look; it must work for some people, and if that's how you prefer to look, don't let me shit on your day. That said, it's not for me and I'm glad...

It's lowk one of the most ugly women i have seen, not gonna lie

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luciferofastora feddit.org luciferofastora@feddit.org
Joined: 2025-02-07
#229 · Quote Reply

cant report it to police or anyone It's not a crime for women to take off their makeup.

What would even be the charge? Emotional assault on a fragile male ego?

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RVGamer06 sh.itjust.works RVGamer06@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2023-07-25
#230 · Quote Reply

In reply to an earlier post

that's on me, i wasn't specific enough

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87Six lemmy.zip 87Six@lemmy.zip
Joined: 2025-09-19
#231 · Quote Reply

DLSS 5 ON vs OFF lol

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nickiwest lemmy.world nickiwest@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-01-01
#232 · Quote Reply

In reply to an earlier post

My husband just said, "If you think the one on the right is not an attractive woman, maybe you're gay. Like, you should just be looking for dudes."

Maybe she's not your exact type, but surely we can all agree that she very much fits the bill for what a large majority of people would traditionally consider pretty.

I am personally not a fan of the highly-made-up trend, so I do think that she's more attractive without the makeup. But I also understand why people like wearing makeup, and it's her right to do it or not depending on her mood. I think anyone who can't tell that she's wearing makeup in the photo on the left is (a) lying or (b) a child.

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velma sh.itjust.works velma@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2026-05-07
#233 · Quote Reply

And what about when women offer unwanted opinions about a man's looks?

The same thing. That’s not happening in this thread though.

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TankovayaDiviziya lemmy.world TankovayaDiviziya@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-01-22
#234 · Quote Reply

Damn I hate it when I get seduced by women wearing makeup, it's the worst thing ever, I hope it doesn't happen this weekend.

Why else, throughout history, have women been blamed just for being attractive?

"No, I raped you! It's your fault for being sexy!"

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cybernihongo reddthat.com cybernihongo@reddthat.com
Joined: 2026-01-12
#235 · (edited) Quote Reply

In reply to an earlier post

Which makes the impact of the whole "sexual assault" tirade slightly less impacting, right. Still insulting.

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Zozano aussie.zone Zozano@aussie.zone
Joined: 2023-07-09
#236 · Quote Reply

calling the woman a female is a telltale sign its an incel.

Maybe it's cultural, but "woman" can sound "old" to some people, and "girl" can sound "young".

Some guys think its respectful to sidestep the whole issue and use an age neutral term, unaware of how it sounds.

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Katrisia lemmy.today Katrisia@lemmy.today
Joined: 2025-06-24
#237 · Quote Reply

In reply to an earlier post

Sorry for joining a heated conversation, but what about lesbians, women in relationships, aroace women, etc.? They still do their hair and makeup.

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architect thelemmy.club architect@thelemmy.club
Joined: 2025-09-04
#238 · (edited) Quote Reply

she’s gorgeous in both?

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Hansae lemmy.dbzer0.com Hansae@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Joined: 2023-06-18
#239 · Quote Reply

she’s gorgeous in both?

I think she looks even prettier in the right photo Idk what the problem is

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levophed lemmy.zip levophed@lemmy.zip
Joined: 2026-09-01
#240 · Quote Reply

What a wild way to say you've never been with a woman before

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buddascrayon lemmy.world buddascrayon@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-08-28
#241 · Quote Reply

In reply to an earlier post

Let me guess, you're one of those guys who runs around telling women to "smile more".

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buddascrayon lemmy.world buddascrayon@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-08-28
#242 · Quote Reply

In reply to an earlier post

Yes and they famously go to conventions without putting on any makeup whatsoever. 🫩

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fdnomad programming.dev fdnomad@programming.dev
Joined: 2024-06-10
#243 · Quote Reply

Maybe it's cultural, but "woman" can sound "old" to some people, and "girl" can sound "young". Some guys think its respectful to sidestep the whole issue and use an age neutral term, unaware of how it sounds.

From my personal experience, those who aims to be respectful just say woman.

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Seleni lemmy.world Seleni@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-23
#244 · Quote Reply

In reply to an earlier post

It used to be considered such a ‘trash food’ fit only for the pathetically poor that there were actually servant employment contracts that limited the amount of lobster the Master of the House was allowed to feed his staff.

Now, that’s largely independent of the taste, mind you. It was more that the Victorians considered any bottom-feeder seafood to be nigh unfit for eating.

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Seleni lemmy.world Seleni@lemmy.world
Joined: 2023-06-23
#245 · Quote Reply

In reply to an earlier post

Sadly, people do believe this. These are the same assholes that go off on women for wearing bras and then expecting all tits to be naturally porn-star perky.

Their real goal, under the ragebait, is to create and then normalize an ‘ideal woman’ template that’s nigh-unattainable and then punish every woman who doesn’t fit the mold. A demand, if you will, that every woman perform and dress up just for their eyes, with a side effect of disenfranchising and controlling women as the cherry on top.

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TwistedTurtle sh.itjust.works TwistedTurtle@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2023-06-22
#246 · Quote Reply

In reply to an earlier post

No, you don't have any responsibility per se, but you should know your comments come off more misandrist than feminist, and actively harm the cause. You are the embodiment of the shrieking feminazi strawman that incels joke about - and I'm not convinced you aren't a larping incel trying to push their conspiracy that feminism = man-hating.

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velma sh.itjust.works velma@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2026-05-07
#247 · Quote Reply

No, you don't have any responsibility per se, but you should know your comments come off more misandrist than feminist, and actively harm the cause. You are the embodiment of the shrieking feminazi strawman that incels joke about - and I'm not convinced you aren't a larping incel trying to push their conspiracy that feminism = man-hating.

If you took one look at my post history, you'd know I'm not a larping incel. I don't push that feminism = man hating.

I'm allowed my opinions same as any other anonymous person on the internet. Again, if my comments are enough to put someone off of feminism, they were never supportive of women's rights to begin with.

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IndustryStandard lemmy.world IndustryStandard@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-01-18
#248 · Quote Reply

DLSS 5 ON vs OFF lol

More like DLSS 5 OFF vs ON

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IndustryStandard lemmy.world IndustryStandard@lemmy.world
Joined: 2024-01-18
#249 · Quote Reply

she’s gorgeous in both?

The makeup version looks hideous to me but that is my personal opinion. Very overdone.

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velma sh.itjust.works velma@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2026-05-07
#250 · Quote Reply

Did you just compare recognition of beauty to fucking rape? Do you have any clue how unhinged you sound?

Did Jeremy rape that woman? No? Then I didn't compare it to rape.

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velma sh.itjust.works velma@sh.itjust.works
Joined: 2026-05-07
#251 · Quote Reply

In reply to an earlier post

Thank you for your comments here. I appreciate it as always <3

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