If trust and communication are on point, its cool.

Been working for me for over a decade. I love my wife dearly, she's not as sexual as I am, she likes hearing about my encounters with other women, it works for us. It won't work for everyone, and requires a ton of communication and respect.

I wouldn't like it in that situation, no. If you aren't together and are doing other people but not each other what exactly is your relationship?

The only way I think it really works is if you are so hot together it pulls other people in, and if you are both wired to be turned on by hearing about the sex with other people, and have extremely good communication, like to the point it would annoy most people. It can't be to fill a hole (ha ha) in the relationship you have. It can be good if you are both enthusiastic about it for sure. I don't personally know anyone who has successfully used it one sided to manage a libido difference, though the top comment here is a guy saying he does that.

so its cool at both end?

How its bad?

if husband and wife both agree then its cool?

True but according to your point of can it need to do?

Basically yes, then if you want to add another person after, husband, wife, and the person that was added before need to agree to add the next person

How can we say?

like can we share one thing like me and my partner both live in other city, so actually in other city she hug one friend so she ask me

not geeting your point> e for over a

But you think its bad?

yes actully one thing happened here can i share?

If they are only a friend and not actually part of the relationship, you just need consent of the people in the relationship. That's what I do when flirting online with people, I have the consent of everyone in my relationship (only my bf for now)

So as long as she keeps you aware and that you say it's fine, it's perfectly ok in my opinion

so she can keep that relationship?

No they plan not for together, just for one to three month

actually we both partner live in different city, so she live there with senior, so they once kiss so she ask me

why failed

true

may be true

so its good if both agree?> UI

how but i seen its also advantage?

actually one thing happened can i share on messge?

trye

If you are ok with it, yes

so if both are in different city its not good?

You’re living in different states, every relationship work well with communication. An open one doubly so and your geographical position doesn’t create a good setting for it to work

can i share detail in message?

so its good that she kiss her senior?

true so its not good na

one thing happened can i share?

true

can i share one thing?

How you adjust?

actually one thing happened can i share?

so its good if both agree?

so its good to open relationship?

It's been a long road but when I met GF I knew I wanted to date her and that I didn't want to cheat. She is happily married and was already poly so I talked to my wife about it. It was suuuuper weird at first, but now we're all friends. The most important thing about being poly- what makes it poly instead of just cheating- is openness and honesty. Just be honest and everything will work out for you.

so if like my wife ask that poly with her senior so its good?

Yes of course

That’s not what I said. What I said was the distance will work against you in this open relationships.

If she already kiss another person without talking with you before, this is not an open relationship.

he kiss her but the she constantly inform me

she asking me can she invite him in home?

That's for you to decide if you are ok with it or not

ya sometimes but according to you?

if ok then

For me, I prefer when both me and my bf can be flirty with the person. If the person prefers me or my bf, I fear that it could lead to jealousy, so I try to make sure everyone gets their fair share of flirting :3

How do you feel about it ?

Ok so to be poly everyone involved has to be good with it, and if you're not comfortable then it's not poly; it's cheating. My wife wasn't comfortable at first so we talked about it and now she is, but it's definitely not for everyone. The mononormative worldview in our society is DEEPLY ingrained. For the people in my polycule it's healthy and good for us, and all four of us have a good relationship with each other.

I'm split on it. I'm involved with someone who is in one, which basically means I am in one. I don't really want to see anyone else, myself. He already had another BF when we met. Sometimes I wish I was the only one so he'd give me more attention cuz we see each other maybe once a week, if he's not busy wifh work or school or his other friends. Which makes it feel like I'm just the one he sees when he can't see anyone else.